Shoyoroll Gi
Whats on my Christmas List? I'll tell you what, the sold out Shoyoroll gi. I would include a pic but its too incredible to look at. Does anyone have patches I can slap on my gi?
Aloha!
Wednesday, December 03, 2008
Hawaii Charities, When Giving Hurts
Hawaii Charities, When Giving Hurts
I really don't want to say it but its a sign of the times. I was reading the article, 'Giving to aid Hawaii's needy drops as demand skyrockets' and have to say that its rather unfortunate especially during the Holiday season to see that charities are facing funding declines of 25% or more, possible layoffs and programs cuts even when the need for services and food are rising.
Its unfortunate, but what can you expect with the economy being what it is. You have people being laid off or having their hours drastically cut. It's not very hard to see why people are not personally donating as much to charities.
The State is also facing a mounting deficit, so much so that Governor Lingle has advised nonprofits to brace for the worse.
I really don't want to say it but its a sign of the times. I was reading the article, 'Giving to aid Hawaii's needy drops as demand skyrockets' and have to say that its rather unfortunate especially during the Holiday season to see that charities are facing funding declines of 25% or more, possible layoffs and programs cuts even when the need for services and food are rising.
Its unfortunate, but what can you expect with the economy being what it is. You have people being laid off or having their hours drastically cut. It's not very hard to see why people are not personally donating as much to charities.
The State is also facing a mounting deficit, so much so that Governor Lingle has advised nonprofits to brace for the worse.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Relationship Deal Breakers
Relationship Deal Breakers
I love Toth's post on Relationship deal Breakers and her little commentary on her friend and how she questioned why her friend was still single.
Right from the get go I couldn't help but hear Greg Hammers voice say, 'Cause she's Ugly!'
'What?!'
Ok, that was wrong and I apologize.
I also couldn't help but notice that she had reviewed a AM.com post to get the dirty on the deal. A fellow AM reader? A lady off my own heart. Bravo Cat!
Got me thinking, what are some deal breakers with me?
She's Crazy
Come on, there's nothing like a brick flying through your car window to make you go, 'Wow your nuts!'
She has Emotional Baggage
As supportive as I am, I really don't want to hear about how the last guy messed around or did this and that. That's the past leave it there. If you're stilling pining over your ex then maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship right now.
She's Broke
Women can do whatever men can do and more, including picking up the tab. God Bless the ones that do.
What are some of your deal breakers?
I love RonW's comment:
"her right-side buttock bounces independently of her left-side buttock."
Ron, you so Craaazzyy.
I love Toth's post on Relationship deal Breakers and her little commentary on her friend and how she questioned why her friend was still single.
Right from the get go I couldn't help but hear Greg Hammers voice say, 'Cause she's Ugly!'
'What?!'
Ok, that was wrong and I apologize.
I also couldn't help but notice that she had reviewed a AM.com post to get the dirty on the deal. A fellow AM reader? A lady off my own heart. Bravo Cat!
Got me thinking, what are some deal breakers with me?
She's Crazy
Come on, there's nothing like a brick flying through your car window to make you go, 'Wow your nuts!'
She has Emotional Baggage
As supportive as I am, I really don't want to hear about how the last guy messed around or did this and that. That's the past leave it there. If you're stilling pining over your ex then maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship right now.
She's Broke
Women can do whatever men can do and more, including picking up the tab. God Bless the ones that do.
What are some of your deal breakers?
I love RonW's comment:
"her right-side buttock bounces independently of her left-side buttock."
Ron, you so Craaazzyy.
I (heart) SPAM More
I (heart) SPAM More
Listen here Miss Toth, I don't care how hot you are (and you are hot), there isn't anyone out there that loves SPAM more than I do and that's the truth. Its true check on out my Chamorro Recipes blog.
A Staple?
SPAM happens to be a staple in my household right there next to clean drinking water. You may scoff at the whole idea of having processed luncheon meat for breakfast, lunch and dinner but not I.
Quick question Cat, how much of a staple is SPAM in Hawaii if it is among a 'select group of thrifty items - including pancakes mixes and instant potatoes?' Instant potatoes? Huh? Everyone knows you have SPAM with rice. C'mon! Poser...
Listen here Miss Toth, I don't care how hot you are (and you are hot), there isn't anyone out there that loves SPAM more than I do and that's the truth. Its true check on out my Chamorro Recipes blog.
A Staple?
SPAM happens to be a staple in my household right there next to clean drinking water. You may scoff at the whole idea of having processed luncheon meat for breakfast, lunch and dinner but not I.
Quick question Cat, how much of a staple is SPAM in Hawaii if it is among a 'select group of thrifty items - including pancakes mixes and instant potatoes?' Instant potatoes? Huh? Everyone knows you have SPAM with rice. C'mon! Poser...
Professional Focus
Professional Focus
Just read through this article on 'Honing Your Professional Focus' in the workplace. I have always been a sucker for self improvement articles, don't know why but I find them the most interesting.
As I read through the post I realized that I did not follow any of the items listed in order to Hone My Professional Focus. I know what you're saying, 'That's just horrible Pete!' Yeah Yeah.
Great Tips to 'Hone Your Professional Focus'
The post gives a few good pointers such as improving your workspace by keeping your desk free from distractions, checking email less frequently, avoiding the internet (guilty), and taking better breaks by not remaining on the net.
Bad...Tips?
The post lost me on using the reward system and keeping well hydrated. Sounds like filler to me. Of course there may be a legitimate claim to the whole thing.
I can see how setting a bench mark or goal and rewarding myself would increase job satisfaction and the like. It sounds plausible but can I really trick myself into working harder just to give myself a cookie?
Just read through this article on 'Honing Your Professional Focus' in the workplace. I have always been a sucker for self improvement articles, don't know why but I find them the most interesting.
As I read through the post I realized that I did not follow any of the items listed in order to Hone My Professional Focus. I know what you're saying, 'That's just horrible Pete!' Yeah Yeah.
Great Tips to 'Hone Your Professional Focus'
The post gives a few good pointers such as improving your workspace by keeping your desk free from distractions, checking email less frequently, avoiding the internet (guilty), and taking better breaks by not remaining on the net.
Bad...Tips?
The post lost me on using the reward system and keeping well hydrated. Sounds like filler to me. Of course there may be a legitimate claim to the whole thing.
I can see how setting a bench mark or goal and rewarding myself would increase job satisfaction and the like. It sounds plausible but can I really trick myself into working harder just to give myself a cookie?
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Making it as a Single Father
Making it as a Single Father
Dealing with the Emotional Roller Coaster
We've all been on that emotional roller coaster ride through hell. Where breakups with our wives or girlfriends have left us well, lets just say, taking a knee. But it only looks up from there. For those of you who don't know, a split is hard but it's even harder on those who have children in the relationship and have to deal with all the extras such as custody battles and the sort.
This past year I became a single father, what can I say, things didn't work out. Somethings just don't. But it's how we collect the pieces and move forward that make the healing process so much quicker. If not for yourself then for the sake of your child. It doesn't make much sense to wallow in self pity but you're gonna. It's just what's going to happen and you're going to have to go through the emotions to get off the ride.
Your Child the Motivator
Trying to get through an emotional time requires a lot of patience, because you're going to have to wait it through to fully heal. You should remember that what ever it is you are feeling your child is feeling it too. Your child should remain your constant motivator to push through the pain and unto a more pleasant state of mind.
Find a Distraction
Your child is the most important person in your world and should be treated as such. Your child is taking the lions share of the pain and you have the responsibility to make the transition as easy as possible for him or her. Find a hobby or create a new one when its your day to spend time with them. Try doing something absolutely new so that the both of you are excited and look forward to your next meeting. It's essential not just for you but for your child.
Don't Bad Mouth the other Parent
As tempting as it may seem to bad mouth the other parent, don't. It doesn't make you look any better and only provides temporary relief to the pain you feel. Its not worth it bud.
Children Take the Lions Share
The ramifications of separation for children are great. Children face the fear of change in their lives where nothing will be the same from meals to family outings. Its an terrible time for them and reestablishing that security should be your number one priority. Children also face the fear of being abandoned or lose attachment to things around them. Children not coping with the separation often show signs of aggression and emotional withdrawal.
Remember to put your Keiki (Child) first
Although you may not like the ex, it's important to remember that you still are the parent and that your responsibilities haven't changed. You need to act like the parent, discipline them when necessary, remain consistent, and reassure you child through actions and words that you will always be in your child's life no matter what.
Dealing with the Emotional Roller Coaster
We've all been on that emotional roller coaster ride through hell. Where breakups with our wives or girlfriends have left us well, lets just say, taking a knee. But it only looks up from there. For those of you who don't know, a split is hard but it's even harder on those who have children in the relationship and have to deal with all the extras such as custody battles and the sort.
This past year I became a single father, what can I say, things didn't work out. Somethings just don't. But it's how we collect the pieces and move forward that make the healing process so much quicker. If not for yourself then for the sake of your child. It doesn't make much sense to wallow in self pity but you're gonna. It's just what's going to happen and you're going to have to go through the emotions to get off the ride.
Your Child the Motivator
Trying to get through an emotional time requires a lot of patience, because you're going to have to wait it through to fully heal. You should remember that what ever it is you are feeling your child is feeling it too. Your child should remain your constant motivator to push through the pain and unto a more pleasant state of mind.
Find a Distraction
Your child is the most important person in your world and should be treated as such. Your child is taking the lions share of the pain and you have the responsibility to make the transition as easy as possible for him or her. Find a hobby or create a new one when its your day to spend time with them. Try doing something absolutely new so that the both of you are excited and look forward to your next meeting. It's essential not just for you but for your child.
Don't Bad Mouth the other Parent
As tempting as it may seem to bad mouth the other parent, don't. It doesn't make you look any better and only provides temporary relief to the pain you feel. Its not worth it bud.
Children Take the Lions Share
The ramifications of separation for children are great. Children face the fear of change in their lives where nothing will be the same from meals to family outings. Its an terrible time for them and reestablishing that security should be your number one priority. Children also face the fear of being abandoned or lose attachment to things around them. Children not coping with the separation often show signs of aggression and emotional withdrawal.
Remember to put your Keiki (Child) first
Although you may not like the ex, it's important to remember that you still are the parent and that your responsibilities haven't changed. You need to act like the parent, discipline them when necessary, remain consistent, and reassure you child through actions and words that you will always be in your child's life no matter what.
Earning Money on Google Adsense
Earning Money on Google Adsense
I was just reading Trench's post on his earnings for 7milesdown and I have to say bravo Trench. It's great to hear that your making out some on the Adsense program. Can't say that I have had much luck in the revenue department but I can say that its growing. I'm excited to say the least and am looking forward to the first payment real soon. I try to throw a little Chamorro Plug here and there for all those searching for Chamorro gear, clothing or music. We have to stick together. Give a little get a little. Aloha!
I was just reading Trench's post on his earnings for 7milesdown and I have to say bravo Trench. It's great to hear that your making out some on the Adsense program. Can't say that I have had much luck in the revenue department but I can say that its growing. I'm excited to say the least and am looking forward to the first payment real soon. I try to throw a little Chamorro Plug here and there for all those searching for Chamorro gear, clothing or music. We have to stick together. Give a little get a little. Aloha!
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